She felt it would be utterly mortifying to be seen in such company as his by anyone.她觉得要是让人看到她和他在一起，会非常没面子。I've said I did not love her, and rather relished mortifying her vanity now and then.我已经说过我不爱她, 而且时时以伤害她的虚荣心...

mortifying的音标：...

adj.抑制的，苦修的v.使受辱( mortify的现在分词 )，伤害（人的感情），克制，抑制（肉体、情感等）...