“文雅的”的英语可以翻译为：cultured，polite，elegant，gentle，couth ...

他的母亲是一位端庄文雅的女性。His mother was an elegant, cultivated woman.你是够文雅的, 看上去象个大家闺秀.You are genteel enough, you look like a lady.在人行道上吐痰是不文雅的.It is not respectable to spit on the sidewalk....