我拒绝接受帮助的时候时常显得粗鲁无礼。I was often rude and ungracious in refusing help.其他时候，他会强迫她在完全无人帮助的情况下自己行走。At other times, he'd force her to walk totally unassisted.他在无人帮助的情况下自己戒除了毒瘾。He overcame his addictions unassisted....

“帮助的”的英语可以翻译为：aidant ...